Letting Go of a Lifetime: A Practical Approach to Downsizing

Downsizing isn’t just about getting rid of things — it’s about navigating the emotional and logistical journey of releasing what no longer fits your life. After coming to terms with the sentimental value of your belongings, you're still left with the question: how do I actually move these things out of my home?

Start with Family, But Manage Expectations

It's natural to want to pass special items to your children or loved ones. However, many people find that the younger generation isn’t interested in antiques, formal dinnerware, or traditional heirlooms. A personal story behind an item may help — but be prepared for a polite decline. For old photo albums, consider scanning and creating digital albums to preserve those memories without the physical clutter.

Selling Takes Time and Patience

Selling your items yourself requires planning. Whether you host a yard sale or list items online through platforms like Facebook Marketplace or Craigslist, you’ll need to photograph, describe, and manage communication. Specialty items may find a broader audience on eBay, but shipping and tracking adds another layer of work. If this feels overwhelming, consider hiring a professional seller — but expect a commission and potentially lower sale prices if items don’t move.

Donation is a Meaningful Option

If selling isn’t a priority, donating can be a wonderful way to give items new life. Organizations like Goodwill or the Salvation Army may offer pickup, but they won’t take everything. Local shelters or community groups are often happy to receive gently used household goods. Be sure to ask for a receipt — donations may be tax-deductible.

Professional Help is Available

If the process feels daunting, you're not alone. Senior move managers can help sort, pack, coordinate donations or sales, and ease the emotional load of letting go. It’s okay to ask for help — sometimes it’s the best decision.

Source: Aging Wisdom